Rich Bitch Energy
BDE - but for the ladies
Everyone notices when she walks into the room. Not because she’s calling attention to herself, but because her energy precedes her. Her aura is magnetic— alluring, sexy, confident. She’s got Big Dick Energy … or as I call it in the feminine way … Rich Bitch Energy.
By now, you have a vision of her in your mind. Whether you are thinking of an actual person, or an amalgamation of your imagination — you can see her. She’s dressed well, but it’s not her clothes you are noticing. She’s physically attractive, but not the most beautiful person in the world. And while you have no way of detecting her actual net worth, you can tell — she’s a woman who is deeply at peace with herself.
Comfortable. Certain. Fulfilled. She knows she has everything she needs—and most of what she wants — right now.
So what does she have? And more importantly … where can we all get some?
Magnetism comes from authenticity.
The lie we’ve been told.
Just be yourself. — What the hell does that even mean?
Our society is literally built on comparison and the pressure to conform.
From an early age, we’re conditioned to believe that acceptance requires shrinking.
Look a certain way. Act a certain way. Follow the rules. Stay small.
So maybe what they mean is:
“Be your most acceptable self—the version that fits inside the box we built for you.”
But how can you “be yourself” when you haven’t even taken the time to remember who you are?
That’s where authenticity comes in.
It’s your core code.
Your soul’s DNA.
The parts of you that existed long before they were stripped away or buried under the weight of other people’s expectations.
It’s your blueprint to becoming your most magnetic self.
How do you remember this core code?
How do you embody it?
You get quiet enough to hear your own voice again.
You start stripping away the “shoulds” and questioning every role you’ve been performing just to stay safe.
You reconnect with your body — because the body never lies.
You start following the subtle sparks: the things that light you up, turn you on, or where you feel an inexplicable pull to move toward something.
You stop asking for permission — and start giving yourself radical self-permission instead.
That’s what embodiment looks like. It’s not about “fixing” yourself. It’s about returning to what was always true.
Now let’s play a game.
Remember the woman who came to mind earlier in your reading?
Bring her back into your mind’s eye. Feel her energy.
Now… switch it up.
That woman is you.
You are the most magnetic woman to walk into the room.
What are you wearing?
Where are you?
Who are you with?
What are they saying about you when you leave?
That vision you see?
It’s not a fantasy.
It’s a remembrance.
You already are the version of yourself you saw.
You already have everything it takes to bring her forward — and lead with your own unique flavor of Rich Bitch Energy.
The only thing standing in your way?
The belief that she’s separate from you.
And the inconsistent actions that don’t yet match her frequency.
If you want help tapping into that energy—your highest self, your soul’s blueprint, your real magnetism—subscribe below to get my Higher Self Visualization + Meditation straight to your inbox.
Because your power isn’t out there.
It’s already in you.
It’s time to remember.
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